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Words to the Graduates

Words to the Graduates

Words to the Graduates

In recent days, an editor at the New York Times asked readers to send in their wise words that they try to live by. The best responses appeared in two Sunday editions in April. A few examples follow.

A Missouri resident named Dave Dillon said, “Always behave as if someone were watching.” Kristy McCray, of Ohio, said she lives by the Platinum Rule. “Treat others as they wish to be treated.” Norma Douglas, of Idaho, quoted her dad. “You are not better than anyone, but no one is better than you.”

Ronald W. Pies, of Massachusetts, said that he follows Marcus Aurelius’s words, “There is but one thing of real value—to cultivate truth and justice, and to live without anger, in the midst of lying and unjust men.” He also likes the Dalai Lama’s words, “Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.”

David Pastore, of New Jersey, quoted John C. Maxwell, a leadership expert, who said, “You cannot overestimate the unimportance of practically everything.”

Thomas P. Roberts, of North Carolina, says that he subscribes to H. Richard Niebuhr’s essay, “The Grace of Doing Nothing.” Roberts admits that “In personal relationships, I have found the wisdom in sometimes doing nothing. It’s incredible how well those interactions go by saying nothing.”

Alexander Von Nordheim, of Maryland, said, “Find what makes you happy, do it, and do what you can to help others find their own happiness.”

A favorite is from William Dock of Seattle, who saw a small sign on the end of a dock that warned all boat owners, “Your Wake Defines You.” He writes, “No matter what I am doing, I always pay attention to the impact my choices have on others. If my impact is too destructive, I change course.”

Graduation season is upon us. Last Saturday morning, a windy day, officials at my alma mater, University of Northern Colorado, in Greeley, read off the names of well over a thousand graduates.

I am curious. What should any graduate hear at their graduation? Here are some ideas.

David Foster Wallace, a college professor and novelist, delivered the commencement address to Kenyon College’s class of 2005, and in it, he said,

“The cliché that any college teaches students how to think means that you will learn how to exercise some control over how and what you think. You will learn to choose what to pay attention to.” To that I would add: what to ignore, and what to shout down as wrong, bigoted, or unjust.

A graduate should also hear words about perfecting his or her communication skills, and also with numbers. Lee Iacocca said, “there were a lot of people smarter than me when we all graduated in 1945, but I surpassed them all. How? My communication skills, my ability to speak and write.”

He added, “The discipline of writing something down is the first step toward making it happen.”

Although Iacocca died in 2019, if he could, he would encourage you, a graduating senior, to study numbers and words. Learn to decipher numbers, and never pass up an opportunity to speak in public, to teach a class, or to draft a letter, an essay, or an article. Take advantage of the opportunities that appear.

To all the above, I would add, a graduate might strive to develop ambitious curiosity. An idea strikes and a typical person will dismiss it, lay it aside, but another may dig deep, work toward a better understanding, and in that process learn a new vocabulary and details that will prove most rewarding.

For example, right now, I am trying to learn of a connection between two alternative numbering systems, the hexadecimal and the binary. The former is based upon the number 16, and the latter is based upon just two numbers, 0 and 1.

Computers use the binary system, 0 for switched off, and 1 for switched on, but the 0’s and 1’s can then be converted into the hexadecimal system, an easier method for men and women to read. I still have much to learn. More about this later.

Last Friday, May 7, I noticed that the lilacs had bloomed on the corner of my property. This brought on a startling memory, of a poem I read years ago, Walt Whitman’s poem, “When Lilacs Last in the Dooryard Bloom’d,” from his book Leaves of Grass.

He wrote it in the spring of 1865, after Abraham Lincoln’s assassination, when the nation was in deep mourning. He writes of “lilacs,” and of “a drooping star,” the planet Venus that was there but then had disappeared in recent nights. “O powerful western fallen star!” he cried out, voicing his grief.

A biographer described a young Ralph Waldo Emerson as a “mind on fire.” Because so many ideas rushed through Emerson’s mind, that on occasion he would give up composing sentences in his journal and just draft a catalog of nouns, without verbs, a list that would run for multiple paragraphs.

Ambitious curiosity, communication skills, finesse with numbers, elements of justice and kindness and our effect upon others: all of these a college graduate might work on in the days ahead.

William Shakespeare

William Shakespeare

William Shakespeare

William Shakespeare passed away on April 23, 1616, at the age of 53, leaving behind some 39 plays that he wrote alone or assisted in writing, for his acting company, the Kings’ Men. Two others in that company, John Heminges and Henry Condell, published in 1623, 36 of his plays in the First Folio.

Of the 750 copies of the First Folio, only 235 remain in existence today. Heminges and Condell’s heroic editorial work preserved and saved from extinction the better of Shakespeare’s plays.

We all wonder and ask, “What is the big deal about Shakespeare?”

Isaac Asimov, a twentieth-century American author, answered that question best. “Shakespeare has said so many things so supremely well that we are forever finding ourselves thinking in his terms.”

For example, the English playwright coined dozens of new words, including: accessible, addiction, assassination, batty, bedazzle, catlike, disgraceful, eventful, fitful, lackluster, lonely, moonbeam, pious, outbreak, quarrelsome, stealthy, useless, watch-dog, and well-read.

English speakers have adopted countless numbers of his expressions: one fell swoop, primrose path, bated breath, brave new world, break the ice, for goodness’s sake, foregone conclusion, full circle, heart of gold, wild-goose chase, tower of strength, snail paced, sorry sight, and spotless reputation.

People still repeat certain of his sentences today: “When we are born, we cry that we are come to this great stage of fools.” “What fools these mortals be!” “There is a tide in the affairs of men.” “All the world’s a stage, and all men and women merely players.” “What a piece of work is man.”

“The lady doth protest too much.” “Neither a borrower nor a lender be. “A plague on both your houses.” “The quality of mercy is not strained.” “Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown.” “Parting is such sweet sorrow.” “To be or not to be, that is the question.”

In recent days I came across a passage from Hamlet that spurred me to investigate further. “Your bait of falsehood take this carp of truth, / And thus do we of wisdom and of reach, / With windlasses and with assays of bias, / By indirections find directions out.” What did Polonious mean here?

The first phrase—bait of falsehood and carp of truth—refers to “making sure that your little lie brings out the truth.” The second phrase—wisdom and reach—means, “We’re doing this wisely.”

Now a windlass refers to “a horizontal cylinder, a barrel, which men on a ship or atop a mine rotate by a crank, and wind a rope or cable around it and draw up fishing nets or boxes of ore.” When Polonious mentions windlasses, he means he wants to see “roundabout or indirect methods” used.

And when he says, “assays of bias,” he refers to “a game of bowls, when a player must allow for a curving surface, in order to get his bowl to the mark.”

Then, “By indirections find directions out,” Polonoius means he will work in a roundabout manner, after he has examined the lay of the land. He will research and test first, and then apply himself.

Not all of Shakespeare’s passages require this degree of laborious investigation to understand the bard’s meaning. For example, in Cymbeline, John of Gaunt says, “Golden lads and girls all must, As chimney-sweepers, come to dust.” He means that death will take us all, even the young and beautiful.

Shakespeare wrote mainly in blank verse, or iambic pentameter. Blank verse refers to poetic prose, or unrhymed poetry. Iambic pentameter refers to “five pairs of syllables, the first unstressed, and the second stressed or accented.” This is key to understanding Shakespeare’s skill with quill and ink.

For example, in The Tempest, here are three of Prospero’s lines: “Our revels are now ended. These our actors / (As I foretold you) were all spirits, and / Are melted into air, into thin air.” Count the syllables of each line, and you should get ten in each. (The word “revels” counts as one syllable.

Last Friday night on PBS’s “Great Performances,” I watched Romeo and Juliet performed on one of London back stages, a different approach.

Most viewers of the play, enjoy the balcony scene, the most famous scene in Shakespeare’s canon. It is young love, forbidden love, between a Montague, Romeo, and a Capulet, Juliet. Their families have disintegrated into a bloody feud, and yet these two star-crossed lovers fall for each other one night.

Yet, I am drawn to the final scene when both Romeo and Juliet are dead. The Prince charges the heads of the two families. “Where be these enemies? Capulet! Montague! / See what a scourge is laid upon your hate, / That heaven finds means to kill your joys with love.

“A glooming peace this morning with it brings, / The sun, for sorrow, will not show his head, / Go hence to have more talk of these sad things; / Some shall be pardon’d, and some punished: / For never was a story of more woe / Than this of Juliet and her Romeo.” Here, Shakespeare ended his best play.

Can you count ten syllables in each of the Prince’s lines?

“What the Constitution Means to Me”

“What the Constitution Means to Me”

“When I was fifteen years old, I traveled the country giving speeches about the Constitution at American Legion halls for prize money. This was a scheme invented by my mom, a debate coach, to help pay for college. I would travel to big cities like Denver and Fresno, and win a bunch of money.

Those are the words of Heidi Schreck, a fast-talking, loud actress, at the beginning of her 2019 smash Broadway play, “What the Constitution Means to Me,” that she wrote and stars in.

She re-enacts that teenage debate, that she entitled, “Casting Spells: The Crucible of the Constitution.” First, she focuses in on James Madison’s ninth Amendment, part of his Bill of Rights.

She reads, “The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people.”

“It means,” Heidi says, “that just because a certain right is not listed in the Constitution, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have that right.” In other words, you and I have rights we cannot identify, because they reside in darkness, unknown. Those rights listed in the Constitution reside in light, are known.

She points out that the twentieth-century Supreme Court Justice William O. Douglas called the ninth Amendment “a penumbra,” that space between light and darkness, “of partial illumination.” Heidi says, “Here we are, trapped between what we can see, and what we can’t. We are stuck in a penumbra.”

Then, she reads through each of the four clauses that make up the Fourteenth Amendment’s first section, passed in 1866 during Reconstruction, and she comments on each clause.

Clause 1: “Any persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States, and of the state wherein they reside.”

“Clause 1,” Heidi says, “overturned the most disgusting Supreme Court decision in history: Dred Scott v. Sandford.” Dred Scott was a Black slave, who had lived with his master for five years in two free states, Illinois and Wisconsin. “He sued for freedom, because of his long residence on free soil.”

The Supreme Court, under Chief Justice Roger Taney, saw it differently. On March 6, 1857, it ruled that because Dred Scott was a Negro slave and not a citizen, he could not sue in federal courts. Clause 1 though made “all persons born on U.S. soil or naturalized U.S. citizens.”

Clause 2: “No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States.”

“Clause 2,” Heidi says, “ensures that you, as Americans, are free to travel from State to State; free to buy property in any State; and free to pursue happiness in every State.” It also strikes at the heart of state’s rights, that a state can restrict certain people because of ethnic or racial or gender reasons.

Clause 3: “Nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law.” Heidi says, “This is one of the most miraculous clauses in our entire Constitution! The due process clause. We stole it from the Magna Carta.
“It ensures that the government cannot lock you up, take your stuff, or kill you—without a good reason. It is also the heart of the 1973 Supreme Court case Roe v. Wade, a case that is a penumbra.”

Clause 4: “No State shall deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.”

Heidi says, “Clause 4 is even more miraculous than Clause 3. The equal protection clause.

“It uses the word ‘person,’ not ‘citizen,’ which means that if you are an undocumented immigrant, you must be given all the protections of Clause 3, the due process clause. You cannot be locked up without a fair trial. You cannot have anything, or anyone, seized from you.”

“The equal protection clause really is miraculous. People have used it to do so much good in this country. It was the heart of the Civil Rights Act. It was used to win all sorts of rights for working women, including the right to equal pay and the right to be free from sexual harassment.”

As Heidi talks about the Constitution, she also brings in her own issues: abuse and exploitation of women in her family, a date when she was seventeen that went awry, an unwanted pregnancy after college, an abortion, her great-great grandmother’s melancholia. She brings all the skeletons out.

At times, Heidi is funny. She says that the women in her family all cry the same way. She calls it “Greek Tragedy Crying.” (She wails. And wails. Very loudly. She recovers.) She then says, “I lost so many boyfriends this way. One of them told me that the crying just felt too aggressive.”

The Constitution is the oldest in the world, dating back to the summer of 1787. When first written, it threw away people, like the black slaves and women, but, with the help of amendments, “people have used it to do so much good in this country.” “We are stuck in a penumbra, between light and dark.”

Truth vs. Illusion

Truth vs. Illusion

Two weeks ago, there appeared in “The New York Times Book Review” a review of Derk DelGaudio’s just-published memoir, “Amoralman: A True Story, and Other Lies,” even though he says, “It is not a memoir.”

Rather, he says, “I had a story to tell about my days as a bust-out dealer, hired to cheat card players at a series of high-stakes poker games at a house in Beverly Hills. I told the story through a memoir.”

In the first half of the book, Derek tells of his early years growing up in Colorado—first in Littleton and Aurora, and then in Colorado Springs. He never knew his father. His mother was a firefighter. He did not get along well in school, and had few, if any, friends.

When 12 years old, Derek found his calling when he walked into a local magic shop in Colorado Springs, that a kind gentleman named Walt owned. From Walt, Derek bought a book on sleight of hand, plus a deck of cards, went home, and practiced for hours after school, until his tricks impressed Walt.

Derek worked for Walt part-time when in school, and then full-time after his school days ended.

Walt introduced him to other magicians, including a well-known magician and sleight of hand pro named Ronnie, who saw potential in Derek, then just a teenager.

In the book’s second half, the scene shifts from Colorado Springs to Beverly Hills, California.

At the age of twenty-five, Derek lets Ronnie talk him into taking his place as a bust-out dealer in a rented house in Beverly Hills. His job was to feed his boss, a guy named Leo, winning cards, and ensure that other players lost.

It was a dangerous job. If ever caught cheating when dealing, he could receive a ferocious beating, or worse, but he was well-paid, taking home each night a percentage of Leo’s take. He later learns that when “he is duping others, he is also duping himself,” and others are duping him.

At the book’s beginning, Derek repeats Plato’s story from his dialogue, The Republic. It is a well-known story, told by Socrates, about prisoners, chained, shackled, and held inside a cave.

A high school history teacher had encouraged Derek to look it up and read it. He did.

The only thing the prisoners ever see are shadows on the wall, which they try to decipher and understand their meaning, but fail. The shadows originate from puppeteers who reside on the other side of a wall and who hold up various objects in the light from a fire.

Socrates explains that if a prisoner ever leaves the cave, the sun outside will blind him, and if he staggers back into the cave and explains to the other prisoners the actual meaning of the shadows on the wall, the other prisoners will not believe him and may kill him.

Socrates declares that “the prisoners are like us humans.” What we think and believe is true is a shadow of an object we cannot touch or see, and only guess at its meaning. “Nothing is as it seems.”

Derek plays on that distinction between truth and illusion. He says, “Truth and lies are opposite sides of the same coin, but who’s flipping it?” “I lost sight of reality just enough to glimpse the truth.” He also lifts a quote from Ecclesiastes, “We are born knowing only truth. Then we see.”

Derek DelGauido’s memoir reminds me, in a slight way, of Charles Mackay’s 1841 book, Memoirs of Extraordinary Popular Delusions and the Madness of Crowds. It too is not a memoir but a catalog of gullible people chasing foolish dreams. In it, you can read about “tulipmania.”

Mackay wrote, “We find that whole communities suddenly fix their minds upon one object and go mad in its pursuit. Millions become impressed with one delusion, and run after it.”

“One nation seized with a fierce desire of military glory, another crazed upon a religious scruple, and neither recover until it has shed rivers of blood.” “Men think in herds; they go mad in herds; they recover their senses slowly, one by one.”

Mass delusions can become quite “popular” at certain times, and then “extraordinary” when studied later in the light of a new day.

Who can you and I trust? How can we pull truth from an illusion? How can we defer a delusion? Good questions. For some possible answers, I point to James Allen’s 1908 book, As a Man Thinketh. In it, he argued that a solution lies in how a solitary man or a woman trains and focuses his or her thoughts.

He says that a thinking man “is the maker of his character, the molder of his life, and the builder of his destiny, if he will watch, control, and alter his thoughts, tracing their effects upon himself, upon others, and upon his life and circumstances.”

You have permission to play a prank on Thursday, and celebrate April Fools Day!

The Ides of March

The Ides of March

In the first scene of William Shakespeare’s play “Julius Caesar,” a military official named Flavius reveals his disgust with a dashing military and political official named Julius Caesar, by asking, “Who else would soar above the view of men, And keep us all in servile fearfulness?”

In the second scene, on a crowded street filled with people cheering for Julius Caesar as he passes by, he hears a single voice above the din, and asks, “Who is it in the press that calls on me? I hear a tongue shriller than all the music cry, ‘Caesar!’”

It is a soothsayer, who speaks up and warns Caesar, “Beware the ides of March.” Caesar ignores the fortune teller, saying, “He is a dreamer, let us leave him. Pass.”

It is not until Act 3, near the middle of the play, that the conspirators—Marcus Brutus, Cassius, and Casca—fall upon Caesar and assassinate him, on March 15, the ides of March.

Historians list details of Julius Caesar’s murder. Some 60 Senators participated in the plot. He tried to escape, but tripped and fell. He died from loss of blood, and it occurred on March 15, 44 BCE.

The Senators acted out of fear that Julius Caesar planned to claim the title of ruler for life, push aside the Senate, and rule as a tyrant forever. They wanted to retain some measure of power.

The Republic’s officials could point to a constitution, to a Senate, to a body of laws, to courts, to interpretations of justice, and to all the remaining mechanics of a functioning republican government.

And yet, the Romans believe that on certain occasions, during an emergency, the Republic would not react quick enough. For those cases, officials would elect a “director,” or a dictator, for six months, suspend the constitution, and give the director total autocratic control.

On Jan. 26, 44 BCE, Julius Caesar had won a new title, “director in perpetuity,” not for six months, but for life. The Senators had reason to fear Caesar’s grab for power, hence their conspiracy.

The public though hated the Senators for killing Julius Caesar. For a dozen years, a host of men, filled with ambition, grabbed for power, stirring up a series of civil wars that shook Rome’s Republic.

Finally, in 31 BCE, Caesar’s grandnephew and adopted son, Octavian, emerged as Rome’s leader. He assumed a new name, Caesar Augustus, and in 31 BCE, he declared himself Rome’s first emperor. An imperial government, the Roman Empire, superseded the Roman Republic that year.

Luke, a New Testament writer, wrote the most telling words, “And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be taxed.” The Senate did not issue the decree, because power now resided in a man, an emperor, who could tax who he wanted.

In the eighteenth century, a British historian named Edward Gibbon, wrote a chronicle of Rome’s Empire, and entitled it “The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire.” It includes six volumes, and covers 2,442 pages.

Gibbon begins on page one. “In the second century of the Christian era, the empire of Rome comprehended the fairest part of the earth, and the most civilized portion of mankind. Their peaceful inhabitants enjoyed and abused the advantages of wealth and luxury.

“The Roman senate appeared to possess the sovereign authority, and devolved on the emperors all the executive powers of government.” In other words, the Senate still existed, but in name only, and had granted all authority to an emperor, to tax, to spend the receipts, to wage war, to negotiate treaties.

Gibbon believes his duty is “to describe the prosperous condition of the empire.” It may have been, and yet its citizens lacked an opportunity to vote and kick out of office a corrupt emperor, like a Nero.

On page 2,441, Gibbon writes, “Of these pilgrims, and of every reader, the attention will be excited by an History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire: the greatest, perhaps, and most awful scene in the history of mankind.” It may have been.

Two millennium have passed, and people living in the 21st century are still trying to reconcile the same issues, as did the ancient Romans.

How can a republic move quickly? Is there ever a need for a temporary director? What is the proper relationship between executive and legislative branches? How does a republic deal with a director who will not leave office, but wants to claim “director in perpetuity,” because of a supposed crisis?”

In a republic, like the United States of America, the answer to most of these important questions boils down to one thing, the will of the people, the voters, the ultimate sovereign authority. In their hands lies the power to direct the wheels of government.

One final point. Shakespeare understood very well the raw emotion that power can unleash when consolidated in one person, in a demagogue. Flavius said, “And keep us all in servile fearfulness.”

Here is my column for this week, some thoughts on Ides of March and Roman history.
Bill Benson

Dualism

Dualism

A 17th century philosopher named René Descartes struggled to make sense of the mind-body problem. He understood that thoughts originate in the brain, but he observed that mental activity is ephemeral, without physical substance. How can this be? he wondered.
Ever since, philosophers have called Descartes’s philosophy “dualism.” They concur that what occurs within the mind exists in a separate reality from what occurs in the physical world.

The 16th century writer Michel de Montaigne tried to describe the way a human mind works. “Men do not know the natural disease of the mind; it does nothing but ferret and inquire, and is eternally wheeling, juggling, and perplexing itself like silkworms, and then suffocates itself in its work.”

He compared the human mind to: “A mouse in a pitch barrel.”

An issue that upset Montaigne was the abundance of laws on the books, designed to curtail crime. He wrote, “We have more laws in France than all the rest of the world put together,” and then he quotes the Roman historian Tacitus, “As we were formerly overburdened by crimes, so we are now by laws.”

Mind vs. body; crime vs. law.

Edmund Burke, the late eighteenth-century British politician, read of events unfolding in France during its revolution, and was horrified. He wrote, “Everything seems out of nature in this strange chaos of levity and ferocity, and of all sorts of crimes jumbled together with all sorts of follies.” “Levity and ferocity.” Wild hilarious laughter matched point for point with rage and harsh words. Crimes jumbled with follies. Mind vs. body; crime vs. law; levity vs. ferocity; crimes vs. follies.

Thomas Paine witnessed events during the French Revolution, but unlike Edmund Burke, Paine was pleased, because he detested France and England’s monarchy. He wrote, “Reason and Ignorance, the opposites of each other influence the great bulk of mankind. Reason obeys itself; and Ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it.

“The two modes of government which prevail in the world, are government by election and representation; and government by hereditary succession. The former is known by the name of republic; the latter by that of monarchy. “Those two distinct and opposite forms, erect themselves on the two distinct and opposite bases of Reason and Ignorance.”

Only Thomas Paine could write that way. Whenever he put ink to paper, he exuded confidence, certainty, fearlessness, and intellectual snobbery. Only he would dare to fix a republic upon a solid base of Reason, but place a monarchy upon a slippery slope of Ignorance.

Mind vs. body; crime vs. law; levity vs. ferocity; crimes vs. follies; Reason vs. Ignorance; a republic vs. a monarchy.

In a recent podcast, I heard the author Simon Winchester describe how journalists and politicians have moved from a former-day respectful “suspicion” of each other to a now distasteful “cynicism.”

Back in the mid-twentieth century, journalists expected politicians to lie, or to embellish, or to leave crucial pieces out of their statements. As a result, a reporter’s boss expected his or her journalists to confirm everything from multiple sources, in order to ferret out the full truth.

But today, suspicion has given way to a raw brand of cynicism. Each party is convinced that the opposing party is wrong about all issues, distrustful of their intentions, anxious to crush them, even to annihilate them, and unwilling to ever cooperate with them to achieve a meaningful result.

The Founding Fathers envisioned a different outcome.

Another example of dualism: deference or democracy. Some people’s minds are geared toward getting in line and following a leader. These people want someone to lead them.

We all know of pitiable examples where a woman will submit to a man, or a man to a woman, or a political party to an elected official, or a flock to an ill-advised theology, or a committee to the loudest and most forceful member, much to their detriment. Yet, they do it.
Democracy though relies upon equality. Each member in the group has a vote. The group’s body of delegates votes and selects a leader to represent them. If that representative fails to perform his or her duties, the group can and will fire him or her, and hire another.

In a democracy, it is the group that retains the power, not a king or an elected official.

Mind vs. body; crime vs. law; levity vs. ferocity; crimes vs. follies; Reason vs. Ignorance; a republic vs. a monarchy; suspicion vs. cynicism; and deference vs. democracy. Each an example of dualism.